Rambo and I were talking about the birthing plan and I recently asked the question, “How will you know you’re in labour?“.
I’m not going to question mother nature and the painful contractions she provides to signal labour, but are there early signs we should be aware of!? The last thing we want is to be sent back and forth from the hospital for false alarms.
To help future dad, I have created ‘A Dad’s Guide To Diagnosing Labour‘:
The Show
When I first read about the show I got really excited. I expected dancing and music and Rambo to add some entertainment to our evening with something that mimicked a west end show. A banner, a parade …. people shouting, “you’re in labour, whoooop!”.
The dictionary definition of ‘show’: a spectacle or display of something, typically an impressive one.
The reality is far from what I expected. Who the hell named it ‘The Show‘. A man I imagine.
Labour Indicator Rating for Dads: 0/10
‘Toni’ Braxton Hicks
OK, I was worried before that we may end up at the hospital and be sent away due to false alarm and these ‘Toni Braxton‘ Hicks are not helping. Fake contractions!! Are you kidding me?
Every time I see what looks like Rambo’s stomach muscles tightening, I panic and think she is going in to labour. Turns out to be the baby moving most of the time.
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Water Breaking
Water breaking is a good sign that you are about to have a baby but not everyone’s water breaks.
For some reason every time Rambo goes to the toilet I ask if her waters have broken. I have no idea why I correlate urinating with waters breaking!?
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Lower Back Pain
Back ache is an early sign of labour? What? She’s been in labour for months then if I was to use this as an indicator!
I have finally stopped diving for the car keys every time I hear a groan relating to back ache. Most of the time Rambo just wants a massage.
Labour Indicator Rating for Dads: 0/10
Discharge
You’ll be glad to know I have resisted temptation (not any more anyway) to dive in to the wash basket looking for discharge in Rambo’s underwear.
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Diarrhoea
I already ask if her water broke when she goes to the loo. Not sure I want to annoy Rambo any further and ask her if she has a bad tummy as well.
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Contractions
Contractions.…. ‘Toni Braxton’ Hicks!!!!!!!! I’m confused. There is no real way for me to know the difference, although real contractions are supposed to hurt!?
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Baby Drops
I like this one. A quantitative measure. I have taken to measuring the top of the bump to shoulder difference. I’m hoping when the baby drops there will be a clear distinction between the distance measured.
Rambo is not keen on this one as she feels like a lab rat so I have taken to measuring as she sleeps.
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Nesting Urge
Rambo has been nesting since I met her. I mean, she is constantly clearing up and throwing out my clothes and re-arranging things to look nice. Again this is not an indicator for us.
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Stop Gaining Weight
Rambo refuses to go on the scales upon my request. She is not feeling great about herself at the moment so I’m not going to push it by demanding she weigh herself.
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Rambo Telling Me She Is In Labour
My list of signs proved useless. I’ll perhaps just wait until Rambo tells me “it’s time”.
Labour Indicator Rating for Dads: 10/10
Choco
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Glad I’m not the only one who thought of Toni when I heard Braxton Hicks. Her song, “He Wasn’t Man Enough” comes to mind, too.
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Hahahah. Glad you got the joke.
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I think you’ve drawn a very sensible conclusion. Don’t worry – she’ll know, therefore you’ll know.
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You’re “it’s time” indicator might be off a bit. I said it’s time like 6 times before it was actually time….. When it finally was time my husband didn’t want to take me
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Crack up. I went in to the hospital to be induced and found out I was already 3cm dilated. Sometimes you just don’t know…until you KNOW. 🙂
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I just hope I get enough warning to get home and get Rambo to the hospital.
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You’ll be right mate. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you and you can ask her to keep her legs crossed 😉
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When in Labour – don’t ask partner “are you going to take much longer? Have I got time to finish assembling that coffee table” 😁
Also be careful you have correct CD in – I gave birth to Black Sabbath singing Paranoid 😱
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I think she is in labour now and I asked if I had time for a run!!
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Noooooooooooooooo 😄😄😄😄😄
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Very true!
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